Monday, October 12, 2015

Make up, don't break up, Bonnie Eaker Weil

"Don't confuse passion with intimacy. Passion develops fast, then levels off. Physical attraction is the strongest part of passion. Intimacy begins slowly and accelerates with time. Mental and emotional attraction is the strongest part of intimacy."



 "Here's what men in my seminars say about why they don't call when they say they will:
    The Number One Answer
    The day after the date or when you first meet is too soon. The next day still feels too aggressive and desperate. The third day is the turning point. If four days go by, I start thinking she might bitch at me by now, since it's been four days. By the fifth day, I feel too guilty. I know she'll ne mad, so why call?
     Other Answers
  • She was so intense, I told her I'd call so she'd leave me alone
  • I need time to think
  • I might just want to be friends
  • It seems like she's looking for a husband
  • I want her to like me for who I am and she seemed more interested in what I do
  • She wants to have kids. I'm not even ready to be a husband, let alone a dad
  • I wanted to see if she'd call me
  • I don't want her to think she's got me wrapped around her little finger
  • What if she says no
  • I like her too much
  • I was just being polite"
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